Published November 29, 2011 by matchsoul

Give Your Man Back His Testicles

Men and women are totally different creatures, nuff said as we all know it.

quit the nagging and understand your valuesI wonder how many women in today’s society are clutching their guys balls, firmly with both hands though?


Well, figuratively speaking, there’s many wives and girlfriends acting in an outwardly masculine fashion. I’m sure I’ll get screamed at by a many feminists however, by the very nature of the gender differences, it’s safe to say that men and women will really have basic actions and reactions, based on their hormones and makeup.

That’s where I’m coming from when I talk about ‘testicles’. Just as women love to be feminine, guys need the freedom to act like and be a man.


We’ve all got different values and priorities. When they’re out of alignment and especially when the lady isn’t getting what she needs done, she’ll often revert to ‘nagging’. This emancipates the guy as well as making him feel less in control. He’s no longer the leader, he’s lost the male vitality he craves.


Have you ever what exactly drives your partner?
We all have our own unique value system and, for the most part, our actions are driven by them.

Here’s an example:

Husband: His values involve ensuring his family is well catered for and does so through his job and bringing home a good pay cheque.

Wife: One of her high listed values is looking fabulous for her husband.

Scenario: Wife is getting pissed at the husband for working late. WTF is wrong with this guy? Is he having an affair? Maybe he doesn’t love me anymore? Does he know I sometimes get lonely when he’s working so long and late?

Resolution: Well this is really just plain easy.

Ask the question: “Hey Babe, can we both figure out each others Top Ten values in life?”

Scenario after resolution: Husband sends sexy wife an SMS “hey beautiful. Wanna meet me for coffee at 6 over at CoffeeLovers? Wear something sexy as I want to buy you some silk underwear which you need to try on”

Wife knows husband needs to work late sometimes so his value system is meet. Husband recognizes wife’s wants and needs and they both reach a mutual compromise which can also be great for a healthy relationship.


Leave them where they rightly belong. Forget about busting his nuts and diagnose why YOU yourself feel the need to dominate what should be a respectful and mutually rewarding relationship.

Better understand each others value system and highest values and apply broad brush compromises so everyone is reasonably happy and content. Life as well as relationships are founded on finding the balance point from which to mov forward from. Nothing is totally perfect. Everything can be magical in the eyes of those who weave their own destinies.

Let us all know about your ‘nut busting’ experiences in the comments section below.


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