Published November 29, 2011 by matchsoul

Feng Shui Your Life For A Better Relationship

The ancient art of Feng Shui creates balance in the home or office. With some additional insights you can create Feng Shui balance in your relationships as well. A good relationship is about balance.

Balance of life, work, love, and happiness all contribute to a healthy relationship. Applying the Feng Shui philosophy to your relationship will help you gain access to the inner peace and balance a qualityrelationship should foster.


The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, it is said. Kitchens are the heart of the home, creating balance in your heart and diet will help to balance your desires and develop healthier choices.

In Feng Shui kitchens are the sign of wealth, and should neither be near the front door or the back door lest the good luck may escape. A wealthy relationship is a healthy relationship. If you and your significant other have had a rough go of it, share a meal of healthy organic fruits and vegetables to promote healing. Keep jewelry to a minimum, consider wearing yellow, and put fresh flowers on the table to enhance the healing powers of the meal.

Keep conversation light, yet direct; do not clutter your conversation with unnecessary information.


Bathrooms are serene and calming; great places to rejuvenate your relationship by creating an oasis with which to ease yourself into the real world.

Create an oasis in your relationship with scents, calming scene of water, and inviting nature into your relationship. When there is a difficult topic to discuss, consider having that conversation out of doors, near a stream or fountain. Remain calm and at peace with your inner self; enabling the negative energy flow away and positive energy flow in creating a cleansing effect on the relationship.

Lavender and Chamomile are great calming scents to wear when facing a serious conversation where tempers may flare.


The perfect Feng Shui living room assures all seating can see the doors. Additionally, chairs and couches are arranged in a circular or octagonal configuration; dark corners should be well lit with plants and bright clear colors.

Create harmony in your relationship living room by shedding light on all aspects of your personality; being an open book will develop trust and understanding. Keeping your arrangement facing the doors will invite opportunity into the relationship; opportunity is how a relationship grows.

Never turn your back on growth.


The romantic Feng Shui bedroom invites love and tenderness.

Create a sense of sensuality in your relationship by dividing your time, and shutting the doors to the bedroom of your relationship to outside influences. Eliminate television and other distracting elements when romance is your goal. Use candles and fresh spicy floral scents to invite sensuality.

Wear skin tones to invoke a sense of naked recklessness, showing your vulnerability and trust to let the relationship go where it chooses.


Have you experienced a heightened love life and enriched relationship with your partner using Feng Shui?
Let us know your own experiences in the comments below – we’d love to hear them.


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